Marcus Aurelius · Philosophy

Remember You Will Die

Marcus Aurelius’s constant meditation on death - not as morbid dread but as the discipline that strips away the trivial and presses us to live, now, with virtue.

From the lesson

More than any other Stoic, Marcus Aurelius kept death constantly before his eyes. The Meditations return to it on almost every page: you will die; you may die today; everyone you know will die; everyone who ever lived has died. He does not flinch from it or push it aside, as people usually do, but deliberately holds it in view at all times. This is the ancient practice of memento mori - ‘remember that you will die’ - and for Marcus it is not morbid but clarifying. The constant awareness of death is a kind of touchstone he applies to everything: faced with any choice, any anxiety, any temptation, he asks how it looks in the light of the fact that he will soon be dead. Most of what troubles and tempts us, seen in that light, loses its hold. Death, kept in view, is the great revealer of what actually matters.

Marcus reasons his way out of the fear of death with characteristic Stoic logic. Death, he insists, is a natural process - as natural as being born, growing, aging, and all the other changes that living things undergo. Nature, which produced you and gave you your life, also takes it back; the same wisdom that timed your birth times your death, and to rage against it is to rage against the order of the universe. Moreover, death is something that happens to every living thing, the common fate of all; what is universal and natural cannot be a special evil aimed at you. And death is simply a change - a dissolution back into the elements from which you were composed, to be recombined into new things. Whatever death is, it is part of nature’s endless process of transformation, and the same change that you have undergone countless times in life (the constant replacement of your body’s matter) is completed in death. To fear it is to misunderstand it.

The deepest purpose of Marcus’s meditation on death is to convert the brevity of life into urgency about living well now. The thought is not ‘life is short, so nothing matters,’ but ‘life is short, so do not waste it; do not postpone becoming good; do not fritter away your one brief existence on trivialities and vices, because the time is running out and will not return.’ Death is the deadline that gives the present its weight. Marcus reproaches himself constantly for delay: you have lived this long and are still not the person you should be; you do not have unlimited time to keep putting off the work of becoming good; the present moment may be your last, so be good in it. Far from being a counsel of despair, memento mori is for Marcus the great spur to virtue - the constant reminder that the time to live rightly is now, because now is all that is certainly ours, and it is almost gone.

This is the opening of the lesson. The rest — the dialogue, the primary source, and the recall — is in the app.

What you'll be able to recall

You learned Marcus’s practice of keeping death constantly before his mind to clarify how he should live. Fourteen centuries later, Montaigne wrote a famous essay arguing that to philosophize is to learn to die. State how Montaigne developed the theme.

Leads to Michel de Montaigne.

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